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If you lose a dream or go through a bad experience, follow these 4 steps
In 2005 my wife and I emigrated to Canada. We were well prepared. Neither of us had a job but that was not going to be a problem. However, when we got there things were quite different to what we had expected. And that eventually led to a marriage crisis. In this article I'll explain the 4 steps you can take to survive this. Read more
How can I listen better to my partner or colleague?
Isn't it frustrating when you want to make something clear to your partner or colleague but somehow or other you fail to connect? You may need a step-by-step plan to learn how to communicate better. Read more
Why men look at porn
Many men know how exciting it can be to look at all the naked offerings on Internet. Sometimes that goes further than just looking now and again. Why would a man look at porn? How do you, his partner, cope with this? Read more
Help!!! My husband is a wimp! (And what to do about it)
During my sessions with clients, I regularly come across women who are greatly disappointed in their husband. At the start of the relationship they had hoped their partners would change but sometime later they have to conclude: "What good is he to me?" Read more
In love with someone else? The 7 dos and don'ts
Couples come to see me on a regular basis because one of them has fallen in love with someone else. This article describes how you can cope with that. Even though you may not have told your partner about it yet, I expect that this article will clarify a variety of issues. Read more
